I think the reason there aren't many girls doing chat rooms and forums is the second a new girl wonders by not knowing what to expect, a whole friggin zombie hoard of guys just pounce with the sickest things in the sex world. it'd scare me off, i know that. wish there was a better guy girl ratio. there's gotta be more girls interested in this stuff than this.

 

Riverdance Bitches.:wall:

 

ummm...not sure wtf that means

 

Nice move playing the gentleman but if you're here, you are also into the same thing as the rest of the guys so, while their being blunt, you are playing the long game. At the end of the day, both you and the 'zombies' are predators.

 

if you say so. i'd like to think i'm a good person. only started trying these sites recently. new to the dating and sex world. waited a bit longer than i should have. just a nice kid trying to find his sexy side.

but i was trying to think what a girl's perspective would be browsing this site. maybe i am talking out my rear, who knows. just rambling i suppose.

 

This isnt the place to search for ladies. Half the women on this site are men. the other half are married and just here for a few things. porn...to help other people... or just seek attention they may miss at home.

If you are seeking a lady.. i hear match.com. does free weekends

 

I AGREE

i have thought of the samething too. guys should know better. you
CAN'T swamp a woman with your dirty cock pics, perverted fantasies,
and whatever else you/they feel like.

this will definitely scare a woman off. not to mention all the so-called
STALKING going on too. women should be given their space. if they
want to hook up with you, let them make the FIRST MOVE.

DON'T crowd women. let them be.

RULES, with dealing with a woman :

ALWAYS, ALWAYS respect a woman's body, rights, thoughts, space,
feelings, & opinion(s)

TREAT a woman like, you would want someone to treat your MOTHER,

DAUGHTER, SISTER, or any woman you admire & look up to.

a WOMAN, is her own WOMAN. " NOT YOURS " , to gain or have control
over.

she has a LIFE, as well as YOU. she doesn't owe you any explanations,
when, where, who, or why she is going out & coming back.

she's ENTITLED to have " GUY FRIENDS ", whether you like it or not.
the two of you, have your own group of friends.


( the list goes on & on ) having a brain cramp. can't think of anymore
at the moment.

you guys get the idea.

 

Well *looks down* I'm not a man, and I'm not married. Why is nobody pouncing?

Oh shit, that's right, I'm not a lady.


Sigh.

 

You totally get the idea of how to behave, well put :rose:

 

Cs you are every inch a lady - an incredibly sexy one too x

 

Some men in general are beasts who only want one thing regardless of the relationship. Although some women are the same in that regard. I agree with krait and add that those men need to stop being overly aggressive towards women in general.

 

What's funny is usually by the time I ever show up to any site, forum or app - every woman is sick of men and have huge disclaimers. haha

Which ultimately hurts us fellas who don't mind having a conversation (intellectual one). Now, I'm not going to say there won't be anything sexual as I'm a huge flirt... makes me wonder how many guys just send dick pics after 3 messages and expect something in return...

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It is quite chauvinistic, misogynistic and pretensious to assume that women are instantly offended or repulsed by the comments they get. This is a sex forum, women who come here aren't exactly hoping to receive love poems.

I find it extremely annoying when guys decide to play the gentleman to protect the ladies as if they are defenseless without a man. Reminds me of when I was visiting a cam sex site and a guy went "You are a beautiful girl, you can find a man and quite this job". Like what? She needs a man to save her? She is working there as a prisioner? It seems as though men tend to assume right away that women can't possibly enjoy sex or enjoy men's attention, like it's, somehow offensive.

 

I understand what you are saying, but with the ratio here about 14:1 and the fact that it is basically a porn forum, the fact that 75% of the guys here ARE respectful of the women and not total pain in the ass retards, that still leaves 3 to 4 guys for every woman who will act like manner-less idiots no matter what you say or try to do.

It is unfortunate, but that is the way it is.

Do you, however, expect anything different in life, even with equal ratios? 10% of guys are unfathomable assholes and 10% of women are nasty bitches. That leaves a whole lot of nice people in the world.

Here, as in the rest of life, you should concentrate on the nice members, not the idiots.

 

First of all, this is a porn site, not a dating site so don't be surprised if people on here are interested in sex. Secondly, the internet is world famous for being full of weirdos and shit heads so again, don't be surprised if they're less than subtle. Thirdly, "nice girls" shouldn't go anywhere near a site like this unless they're prepared to be the object of attention, and boy will they be! I reckon about 80% of the women here are men. And finally, they can always ignore the twats if they aren't impressed.

 

I see that you have not yet discovered the difference between saying, "Hey, bitch, suck my big cock and lick my balls and asshole" as an initial greeting and a friendly hello and casual flirting.

In my nearly 6 years connected with the Forum, I have discovered that the women who are attracted by the former are extremely few and those who are interested in the latter are many.

There is about a 99.9% chance that you will never meet, much less have sex with, anyone on this site, so why not be friendly and leave it at that. The assumption that men and women come here as slathering sex fiends open to anything and everything is way off base. Are there some? Yes. Is it true for most? No.

 

I'd like to address one part of this statement: "80% of the women here are men".

This is not true. However, there are a significant number of assholes who come here and pretend to be women. They are typically loser-newbies who think that posting a pic they find on the internet and claiming it is a pic of them will attract gullible men here. Most of them are found out quite early on, exposed and "pissed on". They get angry and then leave.

There is quite a turnover of that type. However, there are a lot of women here, just not anywhere near as many as there are men---so you are correct: This is not a dating site. Men outnumber women about 14 to 1 and 90% of the women here are not looking for a 'date', just a bit of a thrill---so, if it WAS a dating site, it would be the worst one in existence.

That all said, to assume that the women who are here are all sluts is just wrong. Most are just nice people who, for whatever reason, are looking to make uncommitted connections, talk more freely about sex than they might in person, and just make some long-distance friends.

 

I do find it sad that alot of women rightly feel the need to hide when they are on due the volume of unwanted pms etc that they receive - but anyway - things won't change it's just the way it is on this site

 

I know that difference quite well. I don't think you, on the other hand, understand the difference between a grown woman who's old enough to figure out her sexuality and a little duckling crossing the street. Am I saying men are right to treat women like that? Of course not. I am saying that this is a play. I think this topic is a declaration of love and there is a Cyrano called "penis".

Your whole comment is based on the [offensive] reception women get, there is no rebutle of my comment. As I've said, I don't agree (or contribute for that matter) to the problem this topic approaches. I'm commenting on the chauvinistic idea that women need defense. If anything this is an appeal to the men as if to say "If we treat women badly, they will leave. Then how will we entertain ourselves?

 

Most guys dont know how to treat women in real life wont be any different online. Patients can be good if your willing to take some time to learn what they like you can please them better and you will get the same pleasure back hopefully. Only issue i have seen and that is most of the women want to be degraded and abused so thats usually what they expect. Dont get why but every one has a fetish. Its nice to find ladies that enjoy giving and recieving pleasure. Guys if you give it you will get it