DTMFB.

 

How the hell can a woman hate that a person looks at porn? Bukkake, it sounds like that would have been frustrating to live with.

 

She was really insecure and saw it as threatening, I guess.

We aren't together anymore. She's engaged to some poor sap now. He should've seen it coming a mile away... I know I did. 's why I got the hell outta dodge.

 

Why do you assume that I am embarrassed or that I am hiding it from anyone?
It is simply a mundane pastime and nothing more important than that . It neither effects my life to any great measure nor to anyone around me. You and your friend are obviously placing too much credence on this and really should strive for a better and fulfilling life.

 

Ive never told any of my well now ex partners that im on here

 

yes, he knows i use this site.

 

Mine doesn't know I'm on here, she'd probably shit and go blind, where as a few years ago she'd have been on here posting with me, what's happened in the last few years to make her change so much I don't know but meh...

 

i hope that's never me. then again, i always have to be worried about having a bigger sex drive than my guy, and being the one who's interested in porn. =/

 

That's the thing, while mine's always been high hers seems to have stalled, can't figure out why either, it's not easy having a large sex drive and being with someone who hasn't...

 

My gf knows i post on this forum, I showed her this site yonks ago and she started posting on the forum (before me).

Currently we both post on here, but neither of us knows the others username.. so its always a bit curious thinking which of you she might be..

*X-files theme tune*

'Hey babe!' [to her.. incase you havn't already guessed]

 

She knows I'm on the site dosen't aprove of it per-se. but as i told her its not in any way made to replace her or remover from the sceen. rather its informative in some areas humerous. and when she isn't around for a longer period of time, a way to relive that oh so common build up sexual tension.

again she isn't thrilled but understands

 

I think the sort of girl who wud be ok with me on here, and joining up herself would be my soulmate

 

I've been married for 33 years. He doesn't know. I'm not going to tell him. This is about me and what I want, and the new friends I've made.

 

My girl knows I go to an adult forum, but doesn't know it's this one, and doesn't know the name of it anyway.

The only reason I don't tell her this site directly is because a) she may be pervy, but she's not exactly in to porn >_> b) I don't want her reading some of the things I've written here... and c) I'd have to change my online personality a slight bit if I did tell her >_>

 

This make me so sad.

Women ... your men will masturbate ... probably even if you have sex 3x a day, 7 days a week. Porn facilitates that and in my opinion, doesn't detract from your relationship or appeal.

And yes, I'm probably preaching to the choir. I will STFU now. haha

 

To be honest, if I was in a relationship, I probably wouldn't be on here. The only time I was on here when I was in a relationship was because it was a long distance relationship. Otherwise, considering how busy I'd normally be with school and everything else, I'd much rather spend time with my girl than be on a porn forum, or even watch porn. I'm not at all addicted to either this forum or porn, I just watch it or go on here when I've got too much time on my hands and nothing better to do.

 

obviously you often have too much time on your hands...

 

26,000 posts worth of time.

 

pretty much, but only when it's out of my control. I'm not someone who likes to sit around and do nothing.

look at the join date for one.

 

26 Posts Per Day.

:mrgreen: